‘The nicest crossing guard ever’

August 26, 2015


By George P. Matysek Jr.

gmatysek@CatholicReview.org

Twitter: @ReviewMatysek

GLYNDON – Eight years ago, Bernadette Jackson looked out her front window and noticed some students from Sacred Heart School having difficulty crossing the street in heavy morning traffic.

A Jehovah’s Witness who had no connection to the Catholic school, Jackson called school leaders and asked if she could help. Two days later, she was interviewed, trained by local police and was on the job as a crossing guard.

“I wanted to help,” she said, “because of the teachings handed down by Jesus, to be kind and to love people. I’m connected to the school now – heart and soul.”

Now eight years on duty, Jackson has become a treasured part of the Sacred Heart community.

Dressed in a florescent yellow vest, the white-haired senior who jokingly gives her age as “16” was at the corner of Log House Way and Chatsworth Avenue Aug. 24, holding a handmade welcome back sign. She cheered youngsters as they arrived on foot and in cars on the first day of school.

“Good to see you,” she shouted as she waved to a young girl.

“All A’s this year,” she said to several others.

Many children in cars rolled down windows to wave back at the ever-smiling Jackson.

“She always brings Christ into her work and the kids absolutely love her,” said Zachary Coyle, principal. “She keeps our kids safe and she’s such a blessing.”

Jackson, who attends Bible studies and volunteers at a local nursing home, knows all students by name. An accomplished seamstress who once ran a laundromat with her late husband, she embroiders the names of graduating eighth graders on special pillows she gives as gifts. She even makes it a point to help children with academics, according to Teri Vining, a second-grade teacher at the school.

“She goes over vocabulary words,” Vining said. “She says, ‘I want to know what this word means.’ ”



Bernadette Jackson waves to arriving students during the first day of school at Sacred Heart, Glyndon, Aug. 24
(Olivia Obineme/Special to the Review)

Jackson is thankful to be part of the Sacred Heart community. After her husband of 18 years, Leroy, died, many students and others from the school checked in on her, brought her meals and supported her. That was also the case after her mother died, and after Jackson underwent surgery.

“Love is a verb,” she said. “It’s an action. I accept them and they’ve accepted me. It’s what we should be about.”

Jackson, who reports for duty at 7:45 a.m. and again at 2:50 p.m., said the most challenging part of her job is dealing with speeding drivers. While those who drop off their children at school obey the speed limit, she said, there are others who do not.

“I almost got hit twice,” she said. “Everyone is in a hurry. They don’t want to obey the stop sign.”

No matter the temperature or the precipitation, she’s on the job.

“In the frigid weather, it was almost unbearable,” she remembered with a laugh, noting that a student’s family brought her a new hat because they didn’t think the one she wore was warm enough. “But that comes with the territory.”

Students look forward to seeing Jackson at her designated corner every school day.

“She’s very nice to us,” said Hannah Chmiel, a 9-year-old fourth-grader. “She’s the nicest crossing guard ever.”

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