NNAPOLIS – Like many people, Rev. Shawn Brandon, pastor of Gloria Dei Lutheran Church, has had more time on his hands while sheltering in place during the coronavirus pandemic, but little did he know he would solve a five-year mystery while cleaning out a closet in his Arnold church.
About three miles down the road at St. Andrew by the Bay in Annapolis, Father Jeffrey Dauses, pastor, had been searching for years for his chalice and paten, which had been lost in a delivery mishap. He occasionally would scroll through eBay or visit local pawn shops.
“I just kept looking, thinking it would turn up somewhere. It never did. And after a couple of years, I just gave up hope and didn’t even think about it anymore,” Father Dauses said.
For a priest, a chalice and paten can have the same symbolic value as a wedding ring to a married person, said Father James Proffitt, director of the division of clergy personnel for the Archdiocese of Baltimore. They are typically given as a gift before a priest’s ordination and some have some very personal touches.
“I’d say it’s symbolic and it becomes very significant,” Father Dauses said of the chalices, which are used throughout a priest’s ministry. “There’s a level of emotional attachment.”
Father Proffitt said priests have had their parents’ wedding rings or other family heirlooms embedded in the base of chalices. Father Dauses added a nod to his Franciscan education.
“I designed it so that above the node of the chalice it looks like a silver cord, like the cord that the Franciscans wear around their waist,” Father Dauses said.
This summer, a new crop of seminarians will receive their first chalices and patens before they are ordained Aug. 22 at the Cathedral of Mary Queen in Homeland. The night before, Archbishop William E. Lori will dine with the deacons and their families and bless their chalices and patens.
“The Eucharist is the center of your life as a priest, that encounter with the Lord and in offering the holy sacrifice of the Masses” Father Proffitt said. “So that’s why the chalices are often seen as a principal symbol of the priesthood.”
Back in 2015, after decades of use, Father Dauses’ chalice needed to be restored to its former luster. He sent chalice and paten away for repairs, but they never returned – until late last month.
FedEx had claimed the items were delivered to the church office. The delivery man said he had placed the package on a table next to a copy machine and had a signature to prove it. But Father Dauses’ staff had no record of the delivery. The staff even combed through the church’s security camera footage, showing no delivery had been made to the church that day.
Father Dauses assumed it had been left outside by mistake and the package had been stolen. After some wrangling, FedEx agreed to commission a replacement.
While the replacement was a perfect copy – the same artists in New York recreated the chalice and paten using the original designs – the originals had immeasurable sentimental value. Father’s Dauses’ late parents gave him the chalice and paten and they had been blessed by then-retired Archbishop William D. Borders.
Then in April, Father Dauses got a phone call.
A few days earlier, Rev. Brandon found the chalice and paten covered by a black cloth on a shelf. On the bottom was engraved “the Rev. Jeffrey Dauses.” But Rev. Brandon knew “Father Jeff” not “the Rev. Jeffrey Dauses” so it took him some time to connect the dots.
“I was maybe being a little dramatic about it because I just called and said, ‘Can I stop by?’ And I didn’t tell him what was up,” Rev. Brandon said. “So I met him out in the parking lot because of social distancing. I pulled these things out and saw his jaw drop. It was incredible. He was really stunned. It took him a while to wrap his head around it because he had totally given them up as lost forever.”
Father Dauses said when Rev. Brandon took the chalice from his car he knew immediately.
“Oh, my God, you have got to be kidding me? How in the world did you end up with that chalice?’” Father Dauses told the Lutheran pastor.
When the items were delivered by mistake in 2015, the Gloria Dei Lutheran Church had been going through some staff changes and the chalice and paten must have gotten lost in the shuffle and landed in storage.
“The delivery man did go into a church office. He did go into a work room with a copier. And he did put it on the table. It was just the wrong church,” Father Dauses said. “I must have driven by that church a million times in the five years. And it was sitting right there.”
While the wait was long, Father Dauses said the timing was perfect. A day after the reunion, he celebrated his first Mass with the old chalice and paten – with that silver Franciscan chord — on the feast of St. Fidelis of Sigmaringen, a famous Franciscan friar and the namesake of his high school.
He even called FedEx to tell them the good news and offered to return the replacement chalice and paten. FedEx told him to keep it. He plans to pass on the replicas to another priest or parish in the near future.
“Having the original back really is a thing of great joy because of the symbolic and emotional significance of knowing that it was blessed by Archbishop Borders, knowing that my parents had given me this original one,” Father Dauses said.
Like Father Proffitt, Father Dauses made the comparison to a wedding ring.
“This original one has been with me for 30 years,” he said. “So I would liken it to a couple. Maybe one of whom lost their wedding ring. They were back in Ocean City, in the ocean, and it’s gone forever. They’ve got a replacement.
“And then five years later, lo and behold, somebody shows up at their front door and says, ‘Hey, I found this ring at the beach and it’s got your name inscribed on it.’”
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