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Bernard and Mary Ann Kraus met 70 years ago at a social event at St. Joseph Church in Fullerton. (Kevin J. Parks/CR Staff)

Sturdy parish leads to 70 years of marriage

Paul McMullen April 15, 2020
By Paul McMullen
Filed Under: #IamCatholic, It's about love, Local News, News

Second in a series about married couples who met through the Catholic Church or one of its institutions.

“People who don’t go to church are missing something,” Mary Ann Kraus said.

In her case, “something” includes Bernard, her husband of 70 years.

Little approaches the affection shared by the couple known as Ben and Pat – unless it’s their affinity for St. ­Joseph Parish in Fullerton.

He’s past grand knight of its Knights of Columbus council, secretary of the Holy Name Union and serves as an usher, even with his 90th birthday on the horizon, June 7. She taught as a substitute in its parish school, whose graduates include their three children and her husband. He entered its doors during the Great Depression and remembers taskmaster Franciscan nuns, and, he said, “no indoor plumbing.”

Most pertinent to their bond, St. Joseph is where they first met, in spring 1947. Harry Truman was completing Franklin D. Roosevelt’s fourth term in the White House, and Baltimore had no Beltway or major league sports teams. She took the No. 74 bus to Kenwood High School, northeast Baltimore County was rural farmland, and everything at the parish chicken dinner was made from scratch.

They met either there, or at a youth social. Their first date was Dec. 2, 1947. Three weeks later, during the Christmas liturgy, well, let her pick up the tale.

“We went to church on Christmas Eve, and you put your arm around me,” Pat said. “Then we went to your mother’s, and your brother, Larry, gave you the devil.”

Ben should feel excused for feeling at home at St. Joseph. When he wasn’t working his family’s 17-acre farm, near the intersection of Belair and Silver Spring roads, he was at the parish, where his family’s many contributions included handyman labor and fresh produce. Many of his relatives are buried in the parish cemetery.

Her family had relocated here from the New York side of Lake Champlain, when World War II sent her father to the Glenn L. Martin airplane manufacturing effort in Middle River.

They were married at St. Joseph Feb. 19, 1950, by Father Richard C. Mitchell.

“He was as nervous as we were,”  Pat said.

The Korean War sent Ben into the U.S. Marines, and a base in North Carolina. He worked as an electrician at the Procter & Gamble plant on Fort Avenue. Their children produced seven grandchildren, with a ­seventh great-grandchild on the way. Whether they lived on Belair Road (1956-1990) or in Baldwin (1990-2018), their home was a Christmas gathering place.

Faith and family were tested in 2008, when a grandson, Connor Kohls, was killed by a reckless driver.

“That was horrible,” Pat said. “He would have been 27 this month.”

They live in a retirement community a few miles north of St. Joseph. Their home is decorated with pieces that reflect Ben’s hobby, woodworking, including refurbished electrician boxes. They chatted with the Review from their dining room table, which he refinished.

“Just don’t ask him to make a sandwich,” she said, of her husband’s otherwise meticulous nature.

Their industry and thrift include the top from their wedding cake, which was on display at an anniversary celebration March 1.

Know of a Catholic couple that could be featured in the “It’s About Love” series? Send details to mail@CatholicReview.org

Email Paul McMullen at pmcmullen@CatholicReview.org

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Paul McMullen

Paul McMullen has served as the managing editor of the Catholic Review since 2008.

The author of two books, Paul has been involved in local media since age 12, when he began delivering The News American to 80 homes in his neighborhood. He began his journalism career with the Capital-Gazette Newspapers in Anne Arundel County, and spent more than 25 years as a sports writer for The Sun in Baltimore. His favorite writing assignments have included the Summer Olympics in Australia and Greece, the Archdiocese of Baltimore's response to the 2010 earthquake in Haiti, and “Feet for Francis,” a 2015 walking pilgrimage from the Baltimore Basilica to Philadelphia to see Pope Francis.

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