Fire only serves to forge spirit, OLPH outreach of Ellicott City family

ELLICOTT CITY – Evelyn and Scott Henderson are able to relate a little too well to the people, many experiencing homelessness, that they have met through their ministry work in Baltimore City.

The Hendersons, parishioners of Our Lady of Perpetual Help (OLPH) in Ellicott City, were in the process of helping two of the men they have befriended into a permanent home Dec. 9, when a fire in their Howard County home left displaced their own family.

The couple, along with the youngest of their two daughters, Quinn, and their rescue dog, Scooby, awoke to a smoke-filled home around 3 a.m. that Saturday morning. The fire, which began in the garage, left the Hendersons without a home and an office for their company, Henderson Creative, for 8-10 months while repairs are made.

The blaze also consumed more than 200 coats and other donations which hours later were to be distributed to those in need during the Hendersons’ weekly visit to downtown Baltimore through OLPH’s Salt ministry.

“There’s so much good in that garage, and it’s gone now,” Evelyn said as she watched her garage burn and her house fill with smoke.

All, however, was not lost.

Ministry

Volunteers in OLPH’s two-year-old Salt ministry prepare and share a hot breakfast on weekends at two locations in Baltimore, on the Fallsway and at Broadway and Lombard streets. Since May, the Hendersons have served at the latter site, where many of the recipients are chronically homeless due to opioid use, including those who are attempting to get clean.

“Sometimes (volunteering) is not fun,” Evelyn said, “but it changes your life.”

She credits conversing as one of the most important parts of their work downtown. Learning the stories of those being served encourages people to give more.

“It’s not about the food,” Evelyn said, “it’s about the relationship.”

That approach led the Hendersons to initiate drives for needed goods. A few months ago, they collected bed linens and socks; in December, winter coats. Their home was the collection site for 250 coats that were distributed before the fire, which destroyed a second batch of donations.

“As a pastor, it’s what you hope your parishioners will be drawn into,” said Father Erik Arnold, pastor of OLPH. He said that the Hendersons have always been active in outreach, but that their work downtown is a particularly strong expression of that witness.

It led the Hendersons to form a relationship with Ricky and Corey, best friends who are breaking the cycle of addiction. Slated to start a therapeutic work program at Johns Hopkins Bayview, they found out they were to lose their housing just a week before the Henderson’s lost theirs.

Following the advice that they often give their daughters, “You can’t expect success without support,” Evelyn and Scott jumped into action, fearing that Ricky and Corey might not be able to continue in the Hopkins work program.

“It’s really hard to get clean and sober when you’re poor,” said Evelyn, who called multiple organizations to find out that there were no options for Ricky and Corey; waiting lists for housing ranged from six months to seven years.

Through the help of many parishioners at OLPH, the Hendersons found temporary housing, and then a permanent room for Ricky and Corey. Evelyn and Scott helped to move them into their new home on Dec. 15 – six days after losing their own.

Faith

Evelyn said that her grandmother had a collection of saints, describing them as, “the litany of saints – all plastic.” After her grandmother died, Evelyn inherited one of the small statues of the Blessed Virgin Mary, which has been placed above the kitchen sink in all of the Hendersons’ homes.

“We’re walking through after the fire, and she’s just sitting there completely clean,” Evelyn said of the statue. “There’s soot everywhere, there’s huge chunks of ceiling that have come down into the kitchen sink, and everything is just trashed … and she’s just sitting there completely clean.”

Mary now sits above the sink in the Hendersons’ rental home, where they, Quinn, a junior at Centennial High; and their oldest daughter, Mevie, who was finishing her first semester at Salisbury University at the time of the fire, will celebrate Christmas.

“God works all things for good,” Evelyn said. “Bad things happen … but we’re going to be OK.”

“I feel more blessed than cursed,” Scott said.

 

The first people to show up at their home after the fire were friends from OLPH. The couple said they are overwhelmed by the support from the parish through prayers, gift cards and donated clothing.

“Evelyn told me that she was praying for a better perspective on what these people go through, and unfortunately God gave it to her, and me,” Scott said, lightheartedly adding that he has since asked his wife to back off on that request. “I think we’ve got it.”

As the Hendersons continue to recover, the volunteers with the Salt ministry are examples of what Archbishop William E. Lori describes as “Missionary Disciples.”

Ricky and Corey, who were recipients of the ministry’s work, now serve the Salt ministry, as they plan to be among those helping OLPH distributing boxes filled with food and clothing to those in need in Baltimore City Christmas morning.

 

 

Email Emily Rosenthal at erosenthal@CatholicReview.org

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